Showing posts with label argument. Show all posts
Showing posts with label argument. Show all posts

Friday, August 18, 2017

The blessing of disunity

DAILY BIBLE READING:

Esther 1:1–3:15 
1 Corinthians 11:17-34 
Psalm 35:17-28 
Proverbs 21:19-20

TODAY'S BIBLE VERSE(S):

1 Corinthians 11:19 (CSB) "Indeed, it is necessary that there be factions among you, so that those who are approved may be recognized among you."


REFLECTIONS ON TODAY'S BIBLE VERSE(S):

The first century church at Corinth was a church with a lot of problems - like so many churches around us today. Instead of the church influencing the culture, the culture had definitely influenced the church. Instead of the church going into the world, the world had come into the church.

So, the letters to Corinth are so beneficial to contemporary Christians because, if we are humbly honest, it addresses many of the problems and sins that are within us and around us today.

One problem in the church at Corinth was division. It was a church with cliques. The church members would try to outdo each other by bragging about who their mentor was (1 Corinthians 1:11-13). Further, they were divided along socio-economic lines (see 1 Corinthians 11:21 where some ate and others went hungry).
And then we see our Verse for Today tucked in the mix. We are left to wonder: "What does it mean? What is God saying in this verse?"

"Indeed, it is necessary that there be factions among you, so that those who are approved may be recognized among you." (1 Corinthians 11:19)

Essentially, it is saying that even though division in the church is bad, God uses it for good. When quarreling and fighting and division abound, it allows onlookers to see how each person is responding (or participating) in the disunity.

Simply put, someone living out of fellowship with God will find it easier to disagree and be disagreeable, to say hurtful things they shouldn't say or spread malicious gossip, or to hold onto hurts and refuse to forgive. 

A Christian in fellowship with God will respond very differently. After all, Jesus has called us to a much higher standard.

"But I say, love your enemies! Pray for those who persecute you! In that way, you will be acting as true children of your Father in heaven. For he gives his sunlight to both the evil and the good, and he sends rain on the just and the unjust alike. If you love only those who love you, what reward is there for that? Even corrupt tax collectors do that much. If you are kind only to your friends, how are you different from anyone else? Even pagans do that." (Matthew 5:44-47 NLT)

Please note that our Verse for Today do not say that people who misbehave in times of conflict are lost. It simply states that conflict allows us to see, among those who claim to be saved, which ones are in fellowship with God ("approved" by God).

So, how do you typically respond in times of conflict, friend? Do you gossip? Do you say hurtful things? Do you find it difficult, if not impossible to forgive? Do you pray for God's blessings on the one who has hurt you?

If so, confess such responses as sin. Then, ask the Lord to do a work in your heart to enable you to behave in a way that shows that you are not only saved but in fellowship with God.

Tuesday, July 4, 2017

One way to deescalate a tense argument

DAILY BIBLE READING:

2 Kings 23:31–25:30 
Acts 22:17–23:10 
Psalm 2:1-12 
Proverbs 18:13

BIBLE VERSE(S) FOR TODAY:

Psalm 2:11 (CSB) "Serve the Lord with reverential awe and rejoice with trembling."


REFLECTIONS ON TODAY'S BIBLE VERSE(S):


This morning, I want to reflect on a verse other than the Verse for Today.

In Acts 23, we read about a very volatile gathering. Paul was warned about going to Jerusalem but he went anyway. Once there, even though he tried to create terms of peace, the Jewish religious leaders would have none of it.

In this chapter, Paul is before the Council. The Sanhedrin. They were the Jewish Supreme Court. And Paul was standing and speaking boldly even though his life hung in the balance.

And then it got crazy. Paul said that he had lived with a clear conscience and the High Priest told someone close by to hit Paul on the mouth.

It would have hurt. But, Paul wasn't backing down. His temper flared and he looked at the man who had ordered the punishment and brazenly said: 

"Then Paul said to him, 'God is going to strike you, you whitewashed wall! You are sitting there judging me according to the law, and yet in violation of the law are you ordering me to be struck?'" (Acts 23:3 - CSV)

A punch had been thrown that landed on Paul's mouth. Then, with stinging lips, Paul retorted with his own verbal attack. Then, as the conflict escalated (only compounded by the fact that everyone felt justified)...

"Those standing nearby said, 'Do you dare revile God’s high priest?'" (Acts 23:4 - CSV)

This conflict was escalating and someone needed to deescalate it, and do it quickly. It was Paul's turn...

"'I did not know, brothers, that he was the high priest,' replied Paul. 'For it is written, You must not speak evil of a ruler of your people.'" (Acts 23:5 - CSV)

Paul acknowledged his error. He knew that God's Word forbid speaking evil about those in authority. He knew he had violated God's Word. 

So, he owned it.

As I read the biblical account, I suspect that tension was building in the room much like pressure in a crock pot. But, Paul was humble enough to own his error and I suspect that the tension quickly left the room.

Friend, disagreements are going to happen. It is super easy to help them escalate. Our sinful pride enables us to have the knee-jerk reactions that fill the room with tension.

But, if we ask the Lord for humility, He can use us to quickly calm things down. 

Remember this the next time you get into an argument.

Sunday, June 18, 2017

The danger of unresolved conflict

DAILY BIBLE READING:

1 Kings 19: 1-21 
Acts 12: 1-23 
Psalm 136: 1-26 
Proverbs 17: 14-15

BIBLE VERSE(S) FOR TODAY:

Proverbs 17:14 "To start a conflict is to release a flood; stop the dispute before it breaks out."

REFLECTIONS ON TODAY'S BIBLE VERSE(S):