Showing posts with label listening. Show all posts
Showing posts with label listening. Show all posts

Wednesday, June 28, 2017

Look smart, keep quiet

DAILY BIBLE READING:

2 Kings 13:1–14:29 
Acts 18:23–19:12 
Psalm 146:1-10 
Proverbs 18:2-3

BIBLE VERSE(S) FOR TODAY:

Proverbs 18:2 "A fool does not delight in understanding, but only wants to show off his opinions."

REFLECTIONS ON TODAY'S BIBLE VERSE(S):

In our Verse for Today, we find ourselves considering a type of person that is labeled a fool. They get that label because they talk too much.

When we look at Proverbs 18:2, we realize that the fool has a limited well of knowledge. Yet, they want to show off their limited knowledge so they talk ... and talk ... and talk.

Further, Proverbs 18:2 says that they "(do) not delight in understanding." This points to the fact that when they are talking, they aren't learning. 

It's only as we listen that we can learn. But, since the fool is intent on spouting off what he or she knows, they limit their ability to gain more knowledge.

So, today, don't be a fool. 

Listen. 

Truly listen. 

Listen so that you can learn. 

Listen so that you can hear what people are really saying. 

Listen so that you can hear what the author of a book is saying. 

Listen to God's Word so that you can hear what He is saying.

And as you listen, you will learn. 

And as you learn, you will be able to gain more knowledge out of which you can bless others. But, even then, try to listen much more than you speak.

Let me leave you with a verse from God's Word and then a quote from an American author:

James 1:19 (CSB) "My dear brothers and sisters, understand this: Everyone should be quick to listen, slow to speak..."

Samuel Clemens (a.k.a Mark Twain): "Better to remain silent and be thought a fool than to speak and to remove all doubt."

Monday, June 12, 2017

How do we hear from God?

How does God talk to us? If you think that God has revealed something to you, how does He do it? And how do you know it was Him?

If someone came to you and said, "God told me to tell you that you need to begin teaching a Sunday School class," would you immediately believe that they have heard from God or would you question their words? If you questioned whether they had really heard from God, on what basis would you do so?

For a Christian, these questions are very important. So, let me attempt an abbreviated answer because a complete answer would take a month of Sundays to write. Here are some quick thoughts:

1). God spoke to and through men and women in the Old Testament (beginning with Adam and Eve - see Genesis 3). Simply put, the Old Testament as we know it was being compiled (it wasn't complete until 400 BC) and the New Testament hadn't even been started. So, they didn't have Bibles like we do. So, if God didn't speak to them individually or through their prophets, there would be no word from the Lord.

2). God spoke clearly (sometimes audibly) to New Testament folks as well. I read this morning in Acts where God spoke so loud to the Apostle Paul that those who were near him heard it, too (Acts 9:3-16). The New Testament was being written and wouldn't be completed until about 60 years after Jesus ascended into Heaven. So, God needed to speak to His people through special revelation in the first century.

3). But, (and this is important), as frequently as we read of God speaking to the characters in the Bible, we may assume that God did it often. But, that conclusion would be wrong. When we realize that the time frame of human history covered in the Bible includes 6,000 – 10,000 years, we come to see that, relatively speaking, God didn't speak nearly as often to His people as we may suppose.

4). God still speaks to us today. We are told in Romans 1:20 that God uses the created order to “speak” to unbelievers (Romans 1:20). He may speak to us through circumstances such as “open doors of opportunity” (1 Corinthians 16:8-9) although seemingly positive circumstances / “open doors” aren’t always from God (see 2 Corinthians 2:12-13). In that last reference, we also realize that sometimes God speaks to us in very subjective ways such as a restlessness in our spirit (2 Corinthians 2:13). Etc., etc., etc. On and on we could go as we talk about how God may speak to His children in our day.

5). So, how do we KNOW when it’s God talking to us though a friend, or circumstances, or a restlessness in our spirit, or any number of other ways? We go to the ultimate authority – God’s Word. That is the one Word from Him that we know for certain is truth (John 17:17; 2 Timothy 3:16-17). We must prayerfully approach God’s Word with what we suspect may be God’s voice / leading with questions like these: Does God’s Word specifically address the issue at hand? Does what I believe God is saying to me violate any of God’s precepts? Does the sort of thing that I believe God is saying to me align with the sort of things God led the people of the Bible to do? Does what I believe God is saying to me align with the clear priorities and values that are evidenced in Scripture? Etc., etc., etc. A growing knowledge of God’s Word (that comes from reading and studying it) will provide us with a mindset and worldview that is transformed and able to more readily assess what God is saying (or not saying). After all, this is essentially what is stated in the following verse…

Romans 12:2 “Do not be conformed to this age, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind, so that you may discern what is the good, pleasing, and perfect will of God.”

The Bible isn’t going to tell you whether to purchase a new car or the used one. It’s not going to tell you whether you should keep your present job or take the one being offered to you. But, it will provide you with the frame of reference to understand whether what you think God is saying to you is actually what God is saying. Because, ultimately, the only thing we KNOW God has said is the Bible. Everything else is suspect.

I cannot overstate how vitally important it is for Christians to be people of the Word. Jesus, at 12 years of age, had such a working knowledge of Scripture that he confounded the religious leaders of His day (Luke 2:46-47). As He entered ministry, He fought off the temptations of Satan with His incredible knowledge of Scripture (see Matthew 4:1-11). Even as he lived each day, He did so with a clear desire to conform each of His thoughts, attitudes, actions, and words to Scripture even to the point of quoting Psalm 22:1 as He neared His death. Everything Jesus did aligned with Scripture.

While Jesus is God, He was also fully man. As fully man, He demonstrated for us how much we need to know God’s Word and strive to live in conformity to it. It is the perfect standard by which we measure everything else – including what we think God may be saying to us.

Monday, April 17, 2017

The humility to listen and learn

DAILY BIBLE READING:

Joshua 15:1-63
Luke 18:18-43
Psalm 86:1-17
Proverbs 13:9-10

BIBLE VERSE(S) FOR TODAY:

Proverbs 13:10 (CSB) "Arrogance leads to nothing but strife, but wisdom is gained by those who take advice."

REFLECTIONS ON TODAY'S BIBLE VERSE(S):

What is it that causes so many of us to bristle when others give us advice? Maybe we're insecure? Maybe we want to seem like we've got it all together? Maybe we've got a pride problem?

Maybe it's a teenager that doesn't want to listen to their parents. Maybe it's a husband who is in the driver's seat and refuses to stop and ask for directions. Maybe it's a church member who doesn't want a fellow member to tell them how to fix one of their problems.

Whatever the surface reason might be, we don't like it when others give us advice because we are arrogant. It's that simple. We don't like it when others appear to know something that we don't. We are under the impression that this makes us look bad and our pride doesn't like it.

And when that sin problem rests within our heart, I've seen it create strife over and over. "I know! I know! You don't have to tell me!" Whether we say it audibly or yell it silently in the hallways of our mind, those words put wedges between people, not draw them together.

But, we aren't going to gain more knowledge and wisdom unless we listen to others.  Whether it's a book or conversation, we need to listen to others to get the wisdom we need to live this one life God has given to us. And that's going to take humility. But, if we can humble ourselves enough to listen and learn, we are all the better for it.

Proverbs 13:10 (CSB) "Arrogance leads to nothing but strife, but wisdom is gained by those who take advice."

Tuesday, February 28, 2017

The benefit of listening (and not talking)

TODAY'S BIBLE READING:

Leviticus 22:17–23:44 
Mark 9:30–10:12 
Psalm 44:1-8 
Proverbs 10:19

BIBLE VERSE(S) FOR TODAY:

Proverbs 10:19 "Too much talk leads to sin. Be sensible and keep your mouth shut."

REFLECTIONS ON TODAY'S BIBLE VERSE(S):

Someone has said that God gave us two ears and only one mouth so that we would listen twice as much as we speak.

Yet, most of us apparently didn't get the memo. We talk much more than we listen.

And that's too bad. Because we typically aren't learning anything when we talk. We really only learn when we are listening attentively to others.

The verse for today further tells us that when we speak too much, we may end up sinning. Maybe we will betray a confidence. Maybe we will spread slanderous gossip on someone else. Maybe we will exaggerate a story to impress others. Maybe we will speak and not care for the one to whom we are speaking (1 Corinthians 13:1). The possibilities of sinning with our speech are endless.

Yet, there is a simple cure. Let's listen more. When you are in conversation with someone, ask an open ended question and then listen. Then ask another question and listen. When people realize that you are a good listener, you will never lack for friends.

Tuesday, February 21, 2017

The blessings of listening

TODAY'S BIBLE READING:

Leviticus 11:1-12:8 
Mark 5:21-43
Psalm 38:1-22
Proverbs 10:8-9

BIBLE VERSE(S) FOR TODAY:

Proverbs 10:8 "
The wise are glad to be instructed, but babbling fools fall flat on their faces."

REFLECTIONS ON TODAY'S BIBLE VERSE(S):

The core sin that each of us struggle with is pride. It would seem that all of our other sins stem from that one - we sit on the throne of our own heart and do as we please.

Well, the writer of Proverbs tells us in today's verse of the day that the wise person is not proud. He doesn't think that he has it all together. He doesn't mind it when someone points out some area of his life that needs attention. In fact, it makes him glad to receive that correction. 

Why?

Because he knows that he is a better person for it. Someone has informed him of an area of his life that needs attention and he takes that information and makes the necessary adjustments.

A proud person doesn't listen, though. They don't like it when someone points out an area of concern in their life. They are too busy talking ("babbling"). They are not humble enough to acknowledge that there are plenty of things they can learn from other people. Instead, they may grow angry at someone for pointing out a flaw in their armor.

What is the result?

Proverbs 10:8 "The wise are glad to be instructed, but babbling fools fall flat on their faces."

Since someone who is proud is too busy talking so that they don't receive helpful instruction from others, they will "fall flat on their faces." They may experience the negative consequences of their actions that could have been avoided if they had only listened to others.

So, are you someone that is glad when other's instruct you or are you too busy talking to listen to other's helpful counsel? The Lord would have us realize that we are blessed when we step off the throne of our hearts and humbly receive what others say.