Showing posts with label difficulties. Show all posts
Showing posts with label difficulties. Show all posts

Saturday, August 26, 2017

Why do bad things happen

DAILY BIBLE READING:

Job 20:1–22:30 
2 Corinthians 1:1-11 
Psalm 40:11-17 
Proverbs 22:2-4

TODAY'S BIBLE VERSE(S):

2 Corinthians 1:3-4 (NLT) "All praise to God, the Father of our Lord Jesus Christ. God is our merciful Father and the source of all comfort. He comforts us in all our troubles so that we can comfort others. When they are troubled, we will be able to give them the same comfort God has given us."

REFLECTIONS ON TODAY'S BIBLE VERSE(S):

If you are following along in The One Year Bible reading program, you are reading through the book of Job. It can be a laborious section of Scripture to read - unless you know why it was written. 

Essentially, Job was written to deal with the problem of why bad things happen. The whole book is an attempt by various people to explain why life gets tough until God steps into the conversation to give the final word and end it.

To be sure, there are a LOT of reasons why bad things happen:

In Job's case, it was a cosmic battle that had little to do with Job. 
Sometimes, it is simply because we live in a broken world.
Sometimes, it is because we are receiving the consequences of our sin or the sin choices of someone else.
Sometimes, it is because we are being disciplined by God for unrepentant sin.
On and on and on we could go.

When we arrive at 2 Corinthians 1:3-4, we realize that whatever the cause for difficulties, there is a benefit. In a world where life gets tough, it is nice to know that we aren't in it alone and that others know what it feels like and can help us in the trial.

That is what our Verse for Today is about. It says that when we go through trials and are comforted by the Lord (in whatever form it takes), then we are able to comfort and help others when they are going through trials, too.

The Lord acknowledges that this it will get tough living in this sin-sick world (John 16:33). But, He is not content to allow us to get overwhelmed by the trials. He wants to comfort us and then to comfort each other in those trials.

APPLICATION:
How can you reach out and receive the Lord's comfort today? (Begin with slow, reflective time in His Word.)

Who can you comfort today that is going through some really tough times?

Monday, August 21, 2017

God's love and our tragedies

DAILY BIBLE READING:

Job 1:1–3:26 
1 Corinthians 14:1-17 
Psalm 37:12-29 
Proverbs 21:25-26

TODAY'S BIBLE VERSE(S):

Job 1:8 (NLT) "Then the LORD asked Satan, 'Have you noticed my servant Job? He is the finest man in all the earth. He is blameless—a man of complete integrity. He fears God and stays away from evil.' "

REFLECTIONS ON TODAY'S BIBLE VERSE(S):

In American Christianity, so many that claim that they are opposed to the Health & Wealth Gospel actually believe it. When something good happens to them, they immediately assume that God is blessing them. When something bad happens, they feel like an injustice has occurred. "God, I've been faithfully serving You and this bad thing has happened to me. Why?!"

Fortunately, we have the Bible to correct our erroneous thinking. And if God's Word said nothing else about the subject, the book of Job is sufficient.

The book of Job essentially deals with the topic of suffering in a messed up world. By the end of chapter 1, we read that Job had lost his livelihood and all of his children had been killed.

If that happened to you or me, we would immediately ask the question: "God, what have I done to deserve this?" That question assumes that God will give good things to those who faithfully follow Him and He will allow bad things to come to those who are not following Him. (In other words, the false beliefs of the Health & Wealth Gospel.)

But, all we need to do is read Job 1:8 (and Job 2:3 where God essentially repeats Himself) to see that sin did not bring on Job's tragedy. It wasn't because he was out of favor with God. God wasn't angry at him or disappointed in him.

None of the above things were true. The truth is that God was thoroughly pleased with Job and proud of him!

Job 1:8 (NLT) "Then the LORD asked Satan, 'Have you noticed my servant Job? He is the finest man in all the earth. He is blameless—a man of complete integrity. He fears God and stays away from evil.' "

Essentially, there was a cosmic battle taking place. Satan wanted to demonstrate that God's followers were weak and would quickly abandon Him if their life got tough. God presented Job to Satan as a trophy and as proof that his followers wouldn't quickly abandon Him.

So, Job's horrible troubles weren't because of sin or God's displeasure. No! Job's troubles actually came about ... because God was very pleased with him and proud of him!

Friend, when bad things happen to you, it would be appropriate to do a self-assessment. Ask the Holy Spirit to search your mind and heart to reveal any hidden sins that may have brought on God's discipline (Psalm 139:23-24). 

But, if there is no known sin, then don't continue to assume that the bad thing(s) is evidence of God's displeasure with you. In fact, Job's example reveals that there will be times when God allows troubles into the life of those who are thoroughly pleasing to Him. 

In those times, don't waste your energy questioning Him. Just focus on passing the test. Keep your eyes on Him, strive for wholehearted obedience, and immediately repent of any shortcoming as you receive the grace and forgiveness to get back up and keep on going.

Tuesday, July 11, 2017

Celebrating in times of trouble

DAILY BIBLE READING:

1 Chronicles 11:1–12:18 
Acts 28:1-31 
Psalm 9:1-12 
Proverbs 19:1-3

BIBLE VERSE(S) FOR TODAY:

Psalm 9:1-2 (CSB) "I will thank the Lord with all my heart; I will declare all your wondrous works. I will rejoice and boast about you; I will sing about your name, Most High."

REFLECTIONS ON TODAY'S BIBLE VERSE(S):


When we read our Verse for Today, we hear the Psalmist commit to thanking the Lord and praising Him. He said that he would brag about the Lord and sing about His Name.

When we read of someone committing to such positive, constructive spiritual disciplines, we may be tempted to think that things were going well for him. God is blessing him - that's why he is wanting to celebrate his God.

And that assessment would be wrong. Look at what the Psalmist said a few verses later...

Psalm 9:13 (CSB) "Be gracious to me, Lord; consider my affliction at the hands of those who hate me. Lift me up from the gates of death,"

When we read this verse, we cannot help but realize that the Psalmist's current situation is pretty dire. Things are not well at all.

So, when we hop back to verses 1 and 2, we see those words differently. The Psalmist wasn't wanting to praise the Lord because times were easy. He was wanting to praise the Lord because times were hard.

Friend, when times are tough, it is super-easy to focus on the problems. It is super-easy to get discouraged. It is super-easy to even get depressed and settle into a hopeless mindset.

But, don't do it! If you are saved, you have a Father in Heaven who loves you to death (literally!). And, everything that happens to you has to come through His hands and He's promised to work it all for your good and His glory.

So, instead of focusing on the bad stuff, focus on Him. Keep your chin up by only thinking of the things that celebrate what your God has done for you and why He is so special to you.

I have discovered that when I can focus on the goodness of my God for a substantial period of time, then when I finally get around to focusing on the problem, it doesn't seem nearly so big or so bad.

Keep your eyes on Jesus, friend!

Saturday, May 27, 2017

Living victoriously in the face of trials

DAILY BIBLE READING:

2 Samuel 12:1-31 
John 16:1-33 
Psalm 119:65-80 
Proverbs 16:4-5

BIBLE VERSE(S) FOR TODAY:

John 16:33 (CSB) "I have told you these things so that in me you may have peace. You will have suffering in this world. Be courageous! I have conquered the world."

REFLECTIONS ON TODAY'S BIBLE VERSE(S):

No one would deny that life is tough. It certainly has its tough moments. But, for some people, those times last much longer than moments.

Jesus speaks into our difficult times when He says, "I have told you these things so that in me you may have peace."

He is saying that all of His talk about the cross, dying, going away, sending an Advocate (the Holy Spirit), and so much more is necessary for His followers to experience peace in their hearts.

The Lord wants us to have peace. In fact, it's one of the tell-tell signs that we are filled with the Spirit (see Galatians 5:22-23). 

What does this peace look like? It's the ability to have calm reign within our hearts even as the storms around us are raging. Maybe the doctor has given a bad prognosis. Maybe an unjust boss has fired you. Maybe the car has broken down and there's no money to get it fixed. Jesus is saying that it's possible for the storms of life to rage and yet have a settled peace within our hearts.

How does this happen? Is it just wishful thinking or is this peace based upon something substantive?

Notice again what Jesus said: 

John 16:33 (CSB) "I have told you these things so that in me you may have peace. You will have suffering in this world. Be courageous! I have conquered the world."

Jesus acknowledges that we will have trouble in this world. He's not spouting off positivity talk. He's saying that life will get hard sometimes.

BUT, we are called to be courageous. We are called to stand tall. We are called to be unafraid and experience the peace within our hearts that everything is going to be OK. 

Why? What is this based upon?

Jesus answered this question when He said: "I have conquered the world." 

Simply put, the world system with all of its sin and consequences that make life so difficult is a defeated foe. Jesus, by His righteous life, sacrificial death, and victorious resurrection has defeated sin, self-rule, and Satan. The trinity of evil has been defeated.

So, when life gets tough, we are to remind ourselves that its simply because we live in a sin-sick, broken world. Bad things happen because Adam sinned. He essentially put water in the motor and the engine isn't running as God originally intended. Bad things happen.

But, the Holy Spirit has been given to us to help us through this broken world. He has been given to empower us to live victoriously even as we walk through trials. And one day, we will close our eyes in death and be ushered into the presence of our Lord to enjoy forever. Sin and its consequences, which presently create such difficulty for us, will never again be our experience. So, even if we are overwhelmed with trials, we should look ahead with excited anticipation of one day being with our Lord.

Is life tough? You betcha. But, we can take heart and live victoriously because our Lord has overcome it. And because He has, so will we.

Saturday, April 29, 2017

Why God needs to be first place

DAILY BIBLE READING:

Judges 9:22–10:18 
Luke 24:13-53 
Psalm 100:1-5 
Proverbs 14:11-12

BIBLE VERSE(S) FOR TODAY:

Judges 10:14 (CSB) "Go and cry out to the gods you have chosen. Let them deliver you whenever you are oppressed."

REFLECTIONS ON TODAY'S BIBLE VERSE(S):

In our Bible reading today, we came across a verse that told us what was going on in the hearts and actions of the Israelites...

Judges 10:6 "Then the Israelites again did what was evil in the sight of the Lord. They worshiped the Baals and the Ashtoreths, the gods of Aram, Sidon, and Moab, and the gods of the Ammonites and the Philistines. They abandoned the Lord and did not worship him."

Verses like these appear through the entirety of the book of Judges. It's what happens when a people are not led by a godly leader who calls them to holiness and demonstrates what that looks like in his own life.

It also illustrates what our own hearts do all too often. Instead of serving the one true God, we set up other gods: our jobs, our pursuit of success/wealth, our kids, entertainment, sports, etc.

Well, when we look back at the Verse for Today, we see that one of the "benefits" of serving the one true God is that we have a refuge when life gets tough. But, the "gods" we typically serve can do nothing about it. They cannot help. And so God's comments to the wayward Israelites was intended to point out that they had been serving something that couldn't help them when they were in trouble.

Judges 10:14 (CSB) "Go and cry out to the gods you have chosen. Let them deliver you whenever you are oppressed."

Sometimes, our "gods" can numb us to the pain of life's trials but they cannot ultimately give us a right perspective and healing relief. 

So, we are reminded of yet one more reason why we must serve and love our God supremely; why He must be first place in our life; why nothing else can even come close to Him.

While keep God first place in our hearts is certainly for His glory, it is also for our good. Keeping God first place in our hearts is ultimately for our own good.

Saturday, April 1, 2017

A right attitude in the face of trials

DAILY BIBLE READING:

Deuteronomy 18:1-20:20
Luke 9:28-50
Psalm 73:1-28
Proverbs 12:10

BIBLE VERSE(S) FOR TODAY:

Psalm 73:25-26 (CSB) "Who do I have in heaven but you? And I desire nothing on earth but you. My flesh and my heart may fail, but God is the strength of my heart, my portion forever."

REFLECTIONS ON TODAY'S BIBLE VERSE(S):

The verses for today are so heart-warming, aren't they? They sound like they were uttered by someone who doesn't have a care in the world ... until you read the rest of the Psalm.

I love the realness of the Psalms. The writers don't gloss over the difficulties or seeming inconsistencies of life.

In Psalm 73, the writer is struggling to understand how the wicked are prospering. All the while, he is following the Lord and is struggling.

Listen as he expresses his heart's question:

"Did I purify my heart and wash my hands in innocence for nothing? For I am afflicted all day long and punished every morning." (Psalm 73:13-14)

Do you hear what he's saying? He's struggling to understand if following the Lord is worth it in light of the fact that his days are filled with grief.

At its core is the erroneous belief that a good heart should always be rewarded with an easy, pleasant life. We struggle with this attitude, too, don't we?

"God, why did this happen to me? After all that I've done for You, why is my life so hard? It's not fair!"

Well, friend, the Psalmist realized that to get himself to a right place, he had to change his thinking. He had to focus on something else.

So, what does he do? He focuses on his God and eternity...

"When I tried to understand all this, it seemed hopeless until I entered God's sanctuary. Then I understood their destiny. Indeed, you put them in slippery places; you make them fall into ruin. How suddenly they become a desolation! They come to an end, swept away by terrors. Like one waking from a dream, Lord, when arising, you will despise their image." (Psalm 73:16-20)

The writer looked to eternity and realized that the current injustices were only temporary. Eventually, we will all head to our eternal reward. Those who reject Christ will spend eternity in Hell regardless of how pleasant and exciting their lives seemed on earth. Those who have submitted their lives to Christ will enjoy the splendors of Heaven forever regardless of how difficult their life was here on earth.

This mindset is what led the Psalmist to express his adoration for his God.

Psalm 73:25-26 (CSB) "Who do I have in heaven but you? And I desire nothing on earth but you. My flesh and my heart may fail, but God is the strength of my heart, my portion forever." 

The guy who wrote this didn't have an easy life. Instead, his life was filled with questions, difficulties, and frustrations. Yet, he chose to focus on the Lord in spite of it all. He looked to his eternal reward and found joy in it. It is in light of this that he was able to come to a positive mindset in the face of life's trials.

We can do the same, friend. If life gets us down, we can look to Heaven and realize that our God is to be enjoyed both in eternity and today.

But, as New Testament believers, we also realize that we are never to be satisfied that the wicked are headed to Hell. It should break our hearts. We have wonderful Good News that can bring new life to the hardest of hearts. Let's be open today to share the Gospel with whoever God will send our way. 

Sunday, March 12, 2017

Living in victory when life is tough

TODAY'S BIBLE READING:

Numbers 16:41-18:32
Mark 16:1-20
Psalm 55:1-23
Proverbs 11:7

BIBLE VERSE(S) FOR TODAY:

Psalm 55:22 "Give your burdens to the LORD, and he will take care of you. He will not permit the godly to slip and fall."

REFLECTIONS ON TODAY'S BIBLE VERSE(S):

Life is tough. There's no questioning that. We definitely live in a fallen, Genesis 3 world.

So, what's a Jesus-follower to do? Live in a perpetual state of despair?

Of course not!

We are to follow the example of the Psalmist and "give (our) burdens to the Lord." That means that we go to Him in prayer, inform Him of what He already knows, and then leave the "worrying" to Him.

Essentially, we say something like: "Heavenly Father, I've done all that I can do. I know of nothing else that I need to do. So, I'm leaving this matter in your hands. If I were to fret and worry, it's not going to solve anything so I won't bother. I trust that You are working out Your perfect plan and that whatever happens has to come through Your hands. Thank you so much for taking this burden from me. It was getting far too heavy to carry. Amen."

What is the guarantee? That if we are godly (obedient and confessed up), then He won't permit us "to slip and fall." That doesn't mean that life will immediately get easier. In fact, it may be God's desire to use the difficulties to forge steadfastness and character in us. The verse means that we will be able to stand victorious even if the trials continue to rage around us. We can live confidently because we are trusting in Him to take care of it.

So, is life hard? Sometimes. But, don't lay in a pool of discouragement on the battle field. Get up, trust in the Lord, and live in victory!

Monday, January 25, 2016

Trusting God when life doesn't make sense

God is actively at work all around us. No matter what happens, God's fingerprints are all over it. Either He willed it or simply allowed it - but nothing can happen unless it gets God's approval.

That being said, we often struggle with how to reconcile bad things with God's sovereign control. "How can a good God allow bad things and injustice to take place?"

Well, that is a huge question that is worthy of a much larger post. For now, let's settle on just one of the possible answers that I came across in my Bible reading this morning ...

Sometimes God allows (or wills) bad things to happen because they are a means to bring about a greater good (Romans 8:28). In Joseph's case (Genesis 37-50), God was going to take a young spoiled brat and turn him into a man that could competently claim the enormous responsibility of being second-in-command of the most powerful nation at that time.

How did God choose to develop character in Joseph and get him to Egypt? He allowed him to be sold into slavery by his brothers!

Genesis 37:28
"Then Midianite traders passed by. And they drew Joseph up and lifted him out of the pit, and sold him to the Ishmaelites for twenty shekels of silver. They took Joseph to Egypt."

So, sometimes when life just doesn't seem fair, it may mean that God is using that event to accomplish a greater good. We may never know this side of Heaven what that greater good is. In fact, I am convinced that God doesn't simply work out 1 greater good at a time but thousands of objectives (or more) at a time. We can't possible fully understand why He is doing what He's doing.

So, just trust Him. Never doubt the Lord. He knows exactly what He's doing. Just roll with it and trust Him. It will make sense one day.

Friday, January 17, 2014

Breaking and rebuilding

The incredible story of Joseph is found in Genesis 37-50. In Genesis 41, Joseph is made a national/world leader, only second to Pharaoh.

There are so many life truths in this story that apply to us but the one that keeps resonating with me is this: 'Before God can use a man or woman, he must break them.'

That sounds harsh but our military knows the power of breaking someone and then rebuilding them. New recruits need to get rid of habits and mindsets that are counterproduc...
tive to being a superior soldier. They then need to be rebuilt into the soldier they only dreamed of being. It is only through the breaking and rebuilding process that we are able to have a military second to known.

God, more times than not, does this to the person He chooses to use. Before He used Joseph as a world leader, He broke him. Joseph was an arrogant young man who probably delighted in the fact that his father, Jacob, treated him much better than his brothers. That attitude had to go, so God allowed Joseph to be sold into slavery. Then, God allowed Joseph to be falsely accused of rape by Potiphar's wife and thrown into jail for many years.

Only after Joseph had been broken of his self-pride and self-reliance was he able to be used by God. The fact that he learned this lesson is evidenced in his reply to Pharaoh:

"Then Pharaoh said to Joseph, 'I had a dream last night, and no one here can tell me what it means. But I have heard that when you hear about a dream you can interpret it.' 'It is beyond my power to do this,' Joseph replied. 'But God can tell you what it means and set you at ease.'" (Genesis 41:15-16).

Are you a child of God? Have you been forgiven of your sin and are you actively becoming more like Jesus? Then take heart when difficulties come. God may be doing a work in you to prepare you for something wonderful.

Whether or not that "something" is big or small in the world's eyes, God is getting you ready to use for His purposes. Cooperate with Him. Don't resist the breaking He is doing in your life. He's got great plans for you! (Jeremiah 29:11)

Monday, January 13, 2014

Wrestling with God

In my Bible reading this morning, I came across a fascinating story ... when God took a human form and wrestled with a man! Here is the narrative of Genesis 32:22-32 in the New Living Translation:

22 During the night Jacob got up and took his two wives, his two servant wives, and his eleven sons and crossed the Jabbok River with them. 23 After taking them to the other side, he sent over all his possessions.
24 This left Jacob all alone in the camp, and a man came and wrestled with him until the dawn began to break. 25 When the man saw that he would not win the match, he touched Jacob’s hip and wrenched it out of its socket. 26 Then the man said, “Let me go, for the dawn is breaking!”
But Jacob said, “I will not let you go unless you bless me.”
27 “What is your name?” the man asked.
He replied, “Jacob.”
28 “Your name will no longer be Jacob,” the man told him. “From now on you will be called Israel, because you have fought with God and with men and have won.”
29 “Please tell me your name,” Jacob said.
“Why do you want to know my name?” the man replied. Then he blessed Jacob there.
30 Jacob named the place Peniel (which means “face of God”), for he said, “I have seen God face to face, yet my life has been spared.” 31 The sun was rising as Jacob left Peniel, and he was limping because of the injury to his hip. 32 (Even today the people of Israel don’t eat the tendon near the hip socket because of what happened that night when the man strained the tendon of Jacob’s hip.)

There is so much that we can learn from this short story but let me focus on only one point. It is this: There will be times when God "wrestles" with us. And He has good reason for doing so.

Up to this point, Jacob had lived up to his name. The name "Jacob" meant "heel-catcher" or "deceiver." He was a man that lived by his own wits. There wasn't a problem that could come his way that he couldn't handle. He was self-confident ... and unusable to God because of it.

In order to be usable to God, we must be confident but not "self-" confident. We must be confident in Him. And that is the reason for the wrestling match in Genesis 22. God set out to show Jacob that while he was good at what he did, he wasn't good enough. With a touch, God could render him completely incapable of winning a struggle. So, instead of depending upon himself, God pointed out that Jacob would do well to depend upon the God who can do anything He wills to do.

That lesson applies to us as well. Often, God brings trials into our lives for the same reason He wrestled with Jacob. God wants to strip us of our self-reliance. He wants to break us so that He can rebuild us (our military knows the benefits of breaking and rebuilding new recruits). God wants us to be confident but that confidence needs to be rooted in who He is and what He can do in our life.

Who do you depend on to get you through the moments of each day? If there is any chance at all that God could have great plans for you, you must learn the joys of trusting in Him. Lose your self-confidence and learn the joys of trusting in Him. If you are God's child and you haven't yet learned this lesson, God may wrestle with you by bringing difficulties into your life.

But, what you learn in those times is well worth the experience!

Saturday, December 28, 2013

The purpose of trials

None of us like it when life gets tough. When finances get tight or a relationship sours or a loved one gets a bad prognosis ... we try to pray it away. We can't imagine how going through such trying circumstances can be a sign of God's favor or God's sovereign reign over His creation.

Yet, throughout Scripture, we read that times of trouble are a good thing. In my Bible reading this morning, I was reminded that God often uses undesirable life circumstances to test our faith...
- to see if we are truly children of God on our way to Heaven or whether we are on our way to a Christ-less Hell.

After all, you don't want to get it wrong. Imagine the horror of thinking you are on your way to Heaven and only a moment after closing your eyes in death opening them in torment in Hell. Imagine it hitting you like a ton of bricks that this will be your plight for ever and ever and ever. It will never, ever end. Jesus warned that many will experience this very thing! (Matthew 7:21-23).

So, how do you know that you are saved? How do you know that you have a genuine relationship with God and that your eternal destination is Heaven?

Trials are what God uses to give us certainty of our eternal destination!

God sends difficulties into our life to test us. How we respond says a lot about who we really are on the inside.

When your life gets tough, what's you knee-jerk reaction? What do you do for consolation? Is your natural response to find comfort in spending time with Him in prayer and reading His Word? Or do you find some other thing to bring some sort of inner peace?

What is your response to God? Do you find it natural to say "Your will be done, Lord" or do you naturally question Him and His motives? Do you ignore Him or get angry at Him?

Of course, even the most devout of Christians will have struggles. For a time, they may experience some undesirable mindsets and behaviors. However, they will eventually find their comfort in God like a moth is drawn to a light at night.

Yes, trials are our friends. They are God's gift to us to test the genuineness of our faith. They are intended to comfort our hearts (while not necessarily in this life) with the assurance that we are truly children of God. It is certainly possible for us to experience peace and joy in the midst of trials but ultimately, those trials give us comfort in the fact that we are headed to Heaven.

1 Peter 1:6-7 - "So be truly glad. There is wonderful joy ahead, even though you have to endure many trials for a little while. These trials will show that your faith is genuine. It is being tested as fire tests and purifies gold - though your faith is far more precious than mere gold. So when your faith remains strong through many trials, it will bring you much praise and glory and honor on the day when Jesus Christ is revealed to the whole world." (New Living Translation)

Saturday, November 30, 2013

Kim: "I'm thankful for breast cancer."

I wrote the following and posted it on my Facebook page on Thanksgiving Day, November 28, 2013. As of today (11/30/2013), it has received 138 'likes' and 36 comments. I'm so glad that God is using Kim's story to encourage others.
 
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Earlier this afternoon, my family was listening to Christian contemporary radio in our minivan. In between songs the radio host said, “I’d like for some of you to call and tell me what you are thankful for that you never thought you could be thankful for.”

Immediately, Kim told me: “I’m thankful for breast cancer.” Let me tell you two main reasons why she was able to say that with complete sincer
ity of heart:

First, I have watched my wife intently to see what God was doing in her life and how she would respond. I have noticed that her grappling with the cancer and the radical surgery necessary to eradicate it drove her to her knees. Without a doubt, Kim has struggled with times of discouragement. "Discouragement" is really an understatement but if I had gone through what she's gone through, I would probably not have responded so well. Kim has recently started taking medication to help her manage the discouragement and hopes to be off it soon. But again, if it were me dealing with all she has dealt with in her life, I would probably be taking something, too!

Out of all of this, I have watched Kim rise once again more beautiful and godly than when she entered the valley. A few days ago, she told me: “I feel so close to the Lord right now. I’m enjoying time in His Word and in prayer. I don’t want this to go away.” As I have observed her and listened to her become completely transparent, I love what I see God doing in her life. Even though the breast cancer wasn’t pleasant and the surgery and recovery was even worse, what it has done in her life is incredible. For that, she is thankful to God for the breast cancer.

Second, as we ran up our medical debt with the breast cancer debacle, we approached the end of the year and realized our deductible had been met. Because of that, Kim decided to have a colonoscopy. She had no reason for having that procedure except that she was approaching the age when she would need to get one and since our deductible had been reached, she might as well do it now.

Kim and I went to the Vanderbilt Medical Clinic in Nashville yesterday for the initial visit with the surgeon. They did another scope and took pictures. When I came back into the room, the surgeon held up a picture of the mass inside Kim's body and said that if Kim had not had the colonoscopy, the pre-cancerous mass would almost certainly have become cancer. The surgery required at that point would have been much more radical with long-term unimaginably undesirable effects. It was a great thing that she had the colonoscopy! Why did she have it? Because she had breast cancer!

We have seen God work through the details of this whole thing. We could get stuck in doubt or anger and ask, “God, why do You keep allowing these things to happen?” However, while we’ve asked that question more times than we care to admit, we’ve realized that in our particular situation there is a more appropriate response to our God: “Heavenly Father, THANK YOU for working overtime in the details to get Kim the care she needs well before these problems got out of control.”

Our God is awesome!!! Have a Happy Thanksgiving!

Friday, November 15, 2013

Where to get joy when times get tough

How do you respond when life gets tough? Whether we like it or not, sooner or later, our life will take a turn for the worse. That's not pessimism. That's reality. Someone will get horribly sick. Someone will lose their job. Someone will mistreat us. Someone will die. Something is going to happen that could send us into a tailspin.

So, given that there are certainly mountaintop experiences but th...
ere will also be times of trouble, we need to determine how we will respond to those negative circumstances when they come.

The book of Habakkuk helps us to come to a right conclusion in this matter. The prophet Habakkuk began this Old Testament book that bears his name by complaining to God. He knew that because of Judah's sin and their unrepentant heart that God was going to bring the wicked Babylonian army against them. The Israelites would die from battle, famine, and disease.

As Habakkuk looked into the future of his nation, it was dark. He knew that if he relied upon those depressing future circumstances for his joy, he would remain depressed. So, he focused his attention not upon his circumstances but upon His God. As he trusted God, he knew that even in dire circumstances, he would be ok. In fact, he could even have a deep seated joy amid the turmoil.

"Even though the fig trees have no blossoms,
and there are no grapes on the vines;
even though the olive crop fails,
and the fields lie empty and barren;
even though the flocks die in the fields,
and the cattle barns are empty,
yet I will rejoice in the LORD!
I will be joyful in the God of my salvation!
The Sovereign LORD is my strength!
He makes me as surefooted as a deer,
able to tread upon the heights.
(Habakkuk 3:17-19 - New Living Translation)

Wednesday, October 16, 2013

Ecclesiastes and life under the sun

As I read through all twelve chapters of Ecclesiastes this morning, I couldn't help but realize the obvious theme: "Life stinks!" 

Well, those aren't Solomon's exact words. He put it this way: "'Everything is meaningless,' says the Teacher, 'completely meaningless!'" (Ecclesiastes 1:2)

As I read through the book, I saw where he explored every avenue possible to make sense of life and to achieve happiness. He pursued wealth and wisdom, self-indulgent living, wine, sex/relationships, ambitious building projects, accumulating wealth, ... On and on this list could go.

Yet, over and over, he tells the reader that these are dead end roads. They hold out the promise of bringing happiness but in the end, they don't deliver.

You could get pretty discouraged reading this book and quit before the end unless you realized what Solomon was doing as he wrote it. One very clear hint he drops quite often is the phrase "under heaven" or "under the sun." In this short book, he utters those phrases 29 times!

Essentially, Solomon is waving his arms wildly at the reader as he yells: "This life stinks if you live it as an end in itself. If you are looking for happiness only in what you can gain in this life, you'll be left discouraged. Don't look for happiness 'under the sun.' Look over the sun!"

Listen to how Solomon ends the book. "That’s the whole story. Here now is my final conclusion: Fear God and obey his commands, for this is everyone’s duty. God will judge us for everything we do, including every secret thing, whether good or bad." (Ecclesiastes 12:13-14).

That's the purpose of life! Live in light of what's over the sun. Realize that we will one day stand before our judge to give an account for our life. If you are saved and this life is filled with nothing but difficulty and disappointment, look toward your Heavenly reward!

Look "over the sun!"

Monday, September 23, 2013

Why bad things happen to 'good' people

An issue that humanity has struggled with probably since the beginning of time is: "Why do bad things happen to good people?" Many well intentioned Christians ask this question without realizing that the Bible says: "None is righteous, no, not one;" (Romans 3:10). In fact, Jesus said that "no one is good except God alone" (Mark 10:18).

When we ask why bad things happen to good people, we're implying that the one who is going through trials did nothing to deserve the bad thing. They were living exactly the way they should and therefore, there is no justification for why life got tough. If we hold to this view, we give humanity far too much credit. All of us struggle with sin ... every day.

So, why do bad things happen to folks who are at least striving to live a righteous life? Well, there are a number of reasons: First, we live in a broken, sinful world and bad things just happen. Second, we are sometimes at the mercy of other sinful people who make choices that affect us. Third, we make personal choices that have negative consequences. This list could go on and on.

But, in the book of Job, we see yet another reason. In fact, the book begins by making it clear that Job's troubles weren't brought on by any sinful activity he engaged in. Job 1:1 says, "There was a man in the land of Uz whose name was Job, and that man was blameless and upright, one who feared God and turned away from evil." And yet, his world was about to turn upside down. His children would be killed and all of his possessions destroyed or stolen. The only thing he would have left was his life and a wife who would tell him to curse God and die (Job 2:9). And the Bible makes it clear that it was not brought on by sin.

So, why did this happen? Throughout the book, Job's "friends" came up with all sorts of reasons for why his life took a turn for the worse. However, they weren't privy to the conversation that God had with Satan in the first two chapters of the book of Job.

Essentially, the conversation was over how loyal Job was to God. God was proud of Job (see Job 1:8) and held him in high regard. Satan, on the other hand, believed that God's followers were wimps and would curse Him when life got tough (Job 1:9-11). The challenge began in Job 1:12 when God told Satan: "Behold, all that he has is in your hand. Only against him do not stretch out your hand."

Why did Job's life get tough? Was it because he simply lived in a broken world? Nope. Was it because of his sin or someone else's sin? Nope. It was a cosmic battle that focused upon whether or not he would remain loyal to his God when life got tough.

Hmmm. I wonder if this sort of 'back and forth' with God and Satan still takes place. I wonder if it has happened to you or me. I wonder if we glorified God in the trial or we gave Satan a reason to laugh in victory. I just wonder...

Saturday, March 3, 2012

Running, Endurance, Trials and the Christian Race

As I was finishing up my morning run today, I realized that I had not allowed enough time to recuperate from yesterday's run. My legs were tiring out and felt like I had taken them about as far as they wanted to go today.

I was reminded of a bit of information I had picked up in a running book recently - if I'm going to run longer distances, I need to develop muscle endurance. 

Muscle endurance isn't dealing with the strength of muscles. It speaks of a particular muscle's ability to perform a particular activity for a prolonged period of time.

Now, there's a lot of variables that go into a muscle's ability to endure. But, when you boil it down, to build muscle endurance, you have to run long distances. Pure and simple. To get your leg muscles to take you on a 3 mile or 10 mile run, you've got to train your muscles to endure for that long by running those distances. 

As you are training, your legs are going to get soar. You're going to feel tired the day after. You've got to make sure that you consume some carbs immediately after the run and make sure that you're taking in more than the amount of water that you lost on your run. You've got to do muscle stretches.

But, to build endurance, it's really not that complicated. You've got to just get out there and put in the miles.

Knowing that one day I will run much longer distances, I fought through the discomfort this morning. While my left calf was beginning to ache and I realized that I did not have nearly as much energy today as I did on yesterday's run, I fought through it.

Why? Because the pain today means gain tomorrow! I'm building muscle endurance with every run I take. 

And that's when it hit me ...

That's a lot like the Christian life. The Christian life is a runner's race (see 1 Corinthians 9:24-27). To effectively run it, we've got to develop endurance.

And guess what. God almost ALWAYS takes us through difficulties to build that endurance.

But, take joy in the fact that as you go through those trials, it's God's way of equipping you to build the endurance you need to be victorious in your Christian race!

James 1:2-4 "Consider it a great joy, my brothers, whenever you experience various trials,  knowing that the testing of your faith produces endurance. But endurance must do its complete work, so that you may be mature and complete, lacking nothing."

Wednesday, October 5, 2011

Why does God let life get so tough?

Sometimes the roller coaster of life can really leave your head spinning. A doctor looks you in the eye and says you have cancer. A phone call in the middle of the night informs you that a loved one has departed. The boss hands you a pink slip. The car breaks down. A child begins to make some horrible choices and won't listen to your counsel. The list could go on and on.

Why do those things happen? In fact, with our belief that God is sovereign and reigns supreme over the events around us (Ephesians 1:11), how are we to think about these tough times? I was recently reflecting on that question. Let me share my thoughts.

Exactly 21 days ago, I set out on a mission. I had told a young "Timothy" who I am mentoring that he should pick out some task that he didn't want to do but that would benefit him in the long run and just do it. I realized that I needed to take my own medicine and so I "googled" a plan for beginning runners.

I HATE running. Not much about it is appealing to me ... but I LOVE the results: more energy, better attitude, less stress, higher metabolism, providing the Lord with a healthier "temple", running with my boys, and on and on.

So, I followed the online instructions and ran the first day. It called me to run 1 minute/walk 1 minute and do it ten times. I almost killed myself doing it. I was gasping for air and felt horrible after the run.

The next day, I got Day 2's instructions in an e-mail. I had to do the same thing as Day 1. My legs were still killing me and my lungs were protesting. But I ran anyway. I pushed myself to do exactly what the running plan called me to do.

Well, long story short, I just finished today's run. It's Day 21 and I ran for 5 minutes/walked for 1 minute and did it 5 times. I was tired but not nearly as bad as that first day!

If you were to ask me if I enjoyed the training, I would quickly (and I mean quickly) say "No!" It was hard work for a guy that was out of shape and overweight.

But if you were to ask me if I'm glad I did it, I would quickly (and I mean quickly) say "Yes!" Why? Because I'm enjoying the results. You see, I fought through the tough times because I knew they were preparing me for the good times.

How does that flesh out in our spiritual walk? Simply, that God brings difficulties into our lives for various reasons but often, it's because He's developing us. He's toughening us up. He's getting rid of the spiritual flabbiness and laziness and making us usable to Him. Being used by Him is what we were made for!

We only get one shot at life. The rest of eternity will give us time to reflect on what we did with these few, short years on earth. Often, God sends us to the "gym" to work out so that we can much more clearly reflect His glory in our attitudes, thoughts, words, and actions. He is equipping us for service to Him.

Don't resist God's work. Is it fun when you are in the "gym" and difficulties come? No! But does God promise to work it out for your good (Romans 8:28)? You betcha!

Don't get upset when trials come into your life. Realize that God is using them to make you more usuable to Him. Who knows what may be around the corner. God is training you for something!

Tuesday, April 5, 2011

Calm in the Storm (part 2)

(For Part 1 of this article, click here.)

When you were a child and you fell down and scraped your knee, who did you run to? Your dad? Fat chance! You ran to your mom, didn’t you? 

Moms around the world tend to be nurturers and are great empathizers. Dads, on the other hand, tend to toughen us up. They may have said something like: “Stop your crying and get over it. You’re going to be ok.”
 
While Jesus related to his disciples in various ways throughout his ministry, most certainly he acted like their dad in Luke 8:22-25. He wanted to toughen them up. Let’s look at the text and draw out another principle that will help us get through the tough times.
 
“One day He and His disciples got into a boat, and He told them, ‘Let’s cross over to the other side of the lake.” So they set out, and as they were sailing He fell asleep. Then a fierce windstorm came down on the lake; they were being swamped and were in danger. They came and woke Him up, saying, ‘Master, Master, we’re going to die!’ Then He got up and rebuked the wind and the raging waves. So they ceased, and there was a calm. He said to them, ‘Where is your faith?’ They were fearful and amazed, asking one another, ‘Who can this be? He commands even the winds and the waves, and they obey Him!’”
  
We saw in our last post that Jesus intentionally sent these disciples on this terrifying trip … on purpose. He knew that they would fear for their lives like never before but He did it anyway. Could it be that He sent them on this journey to toughen them up?
 
The storm was so bad that these seasoned fishermen became terrified. Some of these men had probably been fishermen their whole life. (In Matthew 4:21, it states that James and John were in a boat mending their nets with their father before Jesus called them to follow Him. This leads us to believe that they may have been in the family business and had grown up learning the trade from their father. Fishing and boating was probably all they knew but that implies that they may have been extremely good at it.)
 
Not only did they know how to handle a boat, they may have believed that they had the home-court advantage the moment they stepped into one. When they were on land, they were content to let Jesus take charge. 

But stepping into a boat … well, that was quite another matter. They were perfectly content to let Jesus take a seat in the back of the boat and go to sleep. They would take over from there. If any trouble arose, they’d be able to handle it. They couldn’t imagine a scenario on the sea in which they would acknowledge their deficiencies with fear in their eyes and plead with Jesus for help (“Master, Master, we are going to die.”). 


They would have died before acknowledging their fear to a “landlubber” … which gives us a clue as to how bad the storm must have been.
 
We can’t fault them for being terrified, can we? It made perfect sense that they were scared. A massive storm had taken them by surprise when they were far from land. Lightening was flashing around them. The thunder was deafening. Rain blinded them. The waves treated the boat like it was a piece of driftwood and threatened to capsize it. Those waves also crashed over the boat and threatened to swamp it.
 
All of this happened while these men did everything they had been trained to do. Everything they tried in order to maneuver the boat and get it to shore failed miserably. They went from confidence to concern to sheer terror.
 
If you had asked one of them in that storm if they were scared, they would have looked at you like you were 10 bricks short of a load. Of course they were scared! They had never seen a storm this bad. They had tried everything and weren’t getting any closer to land. There was a frightening realization that the boat would be filled with water and sunk. There was a very real possibility that none of them would survive this trip to tell about it. Of course they were scared!
 
No one in his right mind would have faulted them for their fear. It made perfect sense. Everyone of us would have assured them that fear was appropriate in this circumstance … except Jesus.
 
Jesus rebuked them. And notice at what point He corrected them. It was after He calmed the storm. He looked each of them in the eye and said, “Where is your faith?” It was as if He was saying, “Toughen up! If your hearts had remained calm, I wouldn’t have had to calm the storm.”
 
Now, if I had been one of those disciples, I may have been tempted to justify my fear. “But Jesus, You were asleep and didn’t see how bad it was. We had been fighting with the storm for hours. It was like none we had ever experienced. Some of us are skilled fisherman and know all of the tricks of the trade for handling a boat in any circumstance. Yet, none of it worked. We were nearing death, Jesus. Ordinarily we would have trusted You, Jesus, but this storm was the worst thing we’ve ever experienced. Our fear was justified … wasn’t it?”
 
That argument didn’t fly with a father-figure who desired to build toughness into his followers. They got scared when they should have been calm.
 
But that brings up a question: “What is the foundation for toughness in Christ-followers? What could have enabled these men to remain fearless in a hurricane of a storm? What can help us to get through the tough times of life?” Faith!
 
These men had erred by hopping into the boat and trusting in themselves. The storm brought them to the end of themselves. That’s when they should have realized that Jesus was in the boat with them. In fact, they should have remembered that they were in God’s will because the boat trip was Jesus' idea to begin with!
 
Knowing that they were in God’s will and knowing that God was in that situation with them (even when He seemed to be asleep and completely unaware of the ordeal) would have been more than enough to give them the confidence to weather the storm. If their hearts had been tough and calm, the storm could have continued to rage around them. And Jesus would have awoken with a smile as He looked upon these men who had evidenced such manly, godly character.
 
As I conclude, I want to leave you with one of my favorite, all time quotes. Thomas Jonathan (“Stonewall”) Jackson was a devout Christian who loved the Lord. His life had been tough from birth and he had learned to find strength from the Lord to make it through those tough times. He learned that as long as he was in God’s will and he was assured that God was with him, he had nothing to fear. The Almighty would watch over him as he trusted in Him.
 
Someone asked him on a battlefield how he could remain so serene while the bullets and cannonballs were piercing the air all around him. In the book, "God's and Generals," Jeffrey Shaara allowed Stonewall to provide the following answer (probably something Stonewall could have actually said:

“My religious belief teaches me to feel as safe in battle as in bed. God has fixed the time for my death. I do not concern myself with that but to be always ready whenever it may overtake me. That is the way all men should live ... then all men would be equally brave.”
 
Because of his steadfast faith in his Lord, Stonewall sounds like a man who may not have panicked in the boat. What about you? Do you have some toughening up that needs to happen? It will come only when Jesus sends you into some storms ... but you've got to trust Him through it. That's the only way you'll learn this lesson.